A dog following its owner can indicate many things, such as a close bond, love, loyalty, wanting companionship, or even signs of anxiety or insecurity.
In most cases, it is an indication that the dog feels so safe and secure with their owner and loves their companionship. Conversely, it may be a sign that the dog is looking for attention, trying to send a message, or suffering from separation anxiety.
In this blog, you will find all the answers you need, including when to be worried and what you can do to stop your dog from following you in the first place and when it becomes excessive.
Reasons Dogs Follow You Everywhere
There are several reasons dogs follow us. They are pack animals, so genetics is probably the most reliable explanation. When dogs are gradually separated from their canine pack, they switch to their human pack.
Our domestic four-legged friends still exhibit many of the same instincts that are involved with wild dogs. However, genetics is not the only reason dogs like to follow us.
Dogs are social animals. Just like we love their company, they often love ours, and what better way to demonstrate that than to stick close to their buddy? Additionally, if your dog was adopted when still a puppy, she might become so “imprinted” on you that you think of yourself as their “dog mother.”
Sometimes, dogs are just bored and think they should accompany you if you are doing something. These dogs often could use more exercise.
Many animals learn to follow routines, such as when they should be fed or taken for a walk, and there’s no better way to ensure that you remember to provide the routine than to wait right next to you.
This cute behavior is often unconsciously rewarded with food or treats. However, keep in mind that this can have unintended consequences because it increases the likelihood that your dog will repeat the behavior.
Sometimes dogs will stay close to you if they are nervous, scared, or unsure about a stranger. This is most likely during thunderstorms and fireworks – dogs see us as their protectors in this situation.
And then there is the odd dog that can get so nervous that they panic if they are separated from their pet parent.
Velcro Dogs vs. Dogs With Separation Anxiety
Is your constant companion exhibiting symptoms of separation anxiety? While both a “Velcro dog” and dogs with separation anxiety experience not wanting to be away from their owner, there are some distinct (but subtle) differences between these two types of behavior.
The main difference between separation anxiety and being a Velcro dog is the panic, which defines anxiety. True separation anxiety causes animals to panic when they are separated from their owners, whereas Velcro dogs may be glued to them.
While Velcro dogs may be more likely to develop separation anxiety, that doesn’t mean they will. However, it would not be an issue to interrupt the behavior before your dog is unable to function without you in the picture.
Establishing a Healthy Balance
What is preferable is a dog who enjoys your attention and being beside you, yet is okay when you’re not present for some time. Dog owners can take numerous approaches when dealing with a dog that exhibits these tendencies:
Make the dog believe they can live alone; bonding is good, but don’t limit the dog’s interactions with other dogs and humans. Lastly, but certainly not the least, have boundaries and follow through.
Conclusion
As dog parents, while it can be a little annoying when your dog doesn’t leave your side, we have a responsibility to determine what is going on. If you aren’t sure why your dog is acting a certain way, consider asking your veterinarian.
When a dog exhibits excessive compliance, it can be helpful to determine whether their behavior is typical of their breed or personality. But as the dog ages, it may be losing its hearing or vision. So, they may have increased anxiety about their surroundings and feel that they need you beside them.
